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HANDFASTINGS

Originating in Scotland in the 16th and 17th centuries, a handfasting ceremony was a way to make a contract with your beloved. In other words: marry him or her. The Scottish term itself roughly translates into "to strike a bargain by joining hands," and was considered a Celtic tradition during a wedding ceremony. It's also historically part of all Pagan and Wiccan celebrations, dating hundreds of years. In fact, handfasting expert and designer Oleta Collins  explained when it first originated, duos needed to wear the ribbon for a year and a day, and then decide if they would like to stay married. If they wanted to separate, it would be as if they were never married. Sort of like a 'trial marriage' rather than a traditional wedding. They are also used for Engaged couples kind of like a promise of getting married at a later date.
 

There are a few ways We do Handfastings.
I can wear a Ministers shirt, A plain Dark Suit, a Tux,  or my Native American Regalia. We can hold the ceremony inside or outside.

I enjoy doing a Native American Ceremony with Smudge Blessings, Native Music, a small ceremonial fire, in my Regalia... Many people like it because it's different from your everyday ceremony .... Email me and we will discuss your ceremony...

PLEASE NOTE: When I do a Handfasting you are NOT
Married. It is meant as a civil ceremony, such as an engagement, a reaffirmation of your vows, for an anniversary or other like occasions.  
IF you want an "actual" wedding I can do that also but we need to talk because an actual wedding is different then my handfastings.

 

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